Putting religion aside, here is my personal view on many things not just sex:
Be yourself and disagree with things you disagree with and accept things your accept. That goes with religion, government, what your taught in school, me. Be able to ask questions. People in general don’t ask enough questions and just follow a hollow tune. Disagree, diverge, and deviate from things you don’t find true to your heart, for this is essentially the whole existence and reason being that you are you.